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Friday, July 06, 2012

 

I Do Not Know


I Don’t Know



Really, I don’t.  Since the news of our son quickly getting a new job and moving to be near his sister, I’ve been hit with the following questions and the answer remains the same:



I Don’t Know.  I Wish I did but I Don’t.



1)      Now that Adam’s leaving the state-are you next?


2)     How long will it take for the kids to sell their condo?


3)     What do your parents think of this? (Actually, I do know come to think about it-pretty much the same as we do.  They understand, wish him buckets of success, but will miss him very much.)


4)     What kind of home will they buy?


5)     Does he like the new company better already?


6)     Where exactly will they settle? (Plans are to be close to our daughter, but how can they determine that now?)


7)     If you move, will you be happy?



Let’s face it-life is so uncertain that while I might have a clue, I can’t say anything certainly. 



Then there are the questions that I possibly have an answer for?

1)     Do you think he did the right thing?  Yes, yes I do.


2)     If your husband does the same, do you think it’s the right thing?  Yes, yes I do.


3)     Will you like it?  Let’s just say I’ll love seeing him happy again and appreciated.  I love being near my kids.  But I’ll hate leaving my home, my doctors and what few firm writing jobs I have.


4)     Will you enjoy the heat?  Yes, for the most part.  I know when I’m there that the cliché of “it’s a dry heat” is so.  I feel better when I’m there.



Like this week’s blog-I wish I could have more sure answers, some witty or funny responses, but I don’t.  I wish I did, but I don’t.



And since I’m not sure about anything, I’m ending this week right here.

Comments:
Dry heat is gobs better than humid temperatures near a hundred; I can sweat (heh, heh, I meant swear but this works too) to that especially after this week here in Michigan.

Some day we'll be faced with the task of moving, I'm sure, and will be faced with some of the same questions. Though in our case, we'll probably not be moving as far as you.

I do hope that if you move, it'll stick. We do know many people who moved far away, only to return again for whatever reason. But usually it was to move back closer to family. That wouldn't be the case with you.
 
we're so up in the air, it just honestly wears me out. torn between wanting to stay put w/ my doctors and being close to my kids and start everything from scratch.
 
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